STEP ONE is about recognizing the illusion of our separateness
We admitted we were powerless over the effects of our separation from God – that our lives are become unmanageable when separated from the Divine Source of Creation.
We believed God so loved us that he gave his son, Jesus the Christ to the world who suffered, died and rose from death for us. Through this we received the forgiveness of our sins and eternal life as gifts.
‘All the darkness in the world cannot extinguish the light of a single candle.’ -Francis of Assisi
STEP TWO is about the birth of faith in us
We have come to believe that a power greater than ourselves will restore us wholeness and in turn freedom from dis-ease.
We receive the fullness of the Holy Spirit to know God better and have a fruitful life and ministry. We received the fruit, the gifts, and the power of the Spirit along with Christ’s authority over the powers of darkness.
‘While you are proclaiming peace with your lips, be careful to have it even more fully in your heart.’ ― Francis of Assisi
STEP THREE involves a decision to let God be in charge of our lives
Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of the Divine Source, God as each of us understand Him.
We make a covenant to live and serve in the Body of Christ through the teachings provided to us by The Son of Man. We celebrated God’s covenant of love for us through Communion and affirmed our covenant of love for Him through Baptism and the teaching of The Son of Man.
‘Above all the grace and the gifts that Christ gives to his beloved is that of overcoming self.’-Francis of Assisi
STEP FOUR involves self-examination
Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
We experienced God’s healing power and grace inwardly, outwardly and in our relationships with others.
‘Lord, make me an instrument of thy peace.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love,
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
to be consoled as to console,
to be understood as to understand,
to be loved, as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive,
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.’
― Francis of Assisi
STEP FIVE is the discipline of confession
Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
When we believe in the illusion of our separateness from God we create dis-ease in our self and for others in our life.
‘I have been all things unholy. If God can work through me, He can work through anyone.’ ― Francis of Assisi
STEP SIX is an inner transformation sometimes called repentance
We are entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
Repentance, also called penitence, is a change of mind and of heart with regard to sin so as to correct a wrong and gain forgiveness from God or a person who is wronged or sinned against. Repentance is the God-granted attitude of having sorrow for personal sin and the turning away from it towards a new life.
‘It is in pardoning that we are pardoned. ‘― Francis of Assisi
STEP SEVEN involves the transformation or purification of our character
Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
‘Lord, grant me the strength to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can,and the wisdom to know the difference.’ ― Francis of Assisi
STEP EIGHT involves examining our relationships and preparing ourselves to make amends
Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.
‘No one is to be called an enemy, all are your benefactors, and no one does you harm. You have no enemy except yourselves.’ ― Francis of Assisi
STEP NINE is the discipline of making amends
Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
‘We have been called to heal wounds, to unite what has fallen apart, and to bring home those who have lost their way.’ ― Francis of Assisi
STEP TEN is about maintaining progress in our reconnection to the Divine Source
Continued to take personal inventory, and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.
‘Sanctify yourself and you will sanctify society.’ ― Francis of Assisi
STEP ELEVEN involves the spiritual disciplines of a practice of prayer and meditation
Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out. Prayer is when you speak to God. Meditation is when God speaks to you.
‘We should seek not so much to pray but to become prayer.’ ― Francis of Assisi
STEP TWELVE is about ministry
Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to others, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
‘Preach the Gospel at all times, and when necessary, use words.’ ― Francis of Assisi
About the Author
Brother Christopher Bashaw OFD, RN, M.Div. is a professed Brother in the Franciscans of Divine Mercy, an Old Catholic Tradition within the Independent Catholic Church of the Americas. He is also enrolled in the Independent Catholic Church of the Americas Seminary studying for the permanent deaconate. Brother Christopher has worked as a RN since graduating nursing school in 1984, with nursing experience including drug and alcohol recovery/detox, psychiatric nursing, physical rehabilitation, pain care, military nursing, occupational health, nursing home care, and pediatric/camp nursing. He has brought these skills into the developing his ministry the Mother Mary Society and Franciscan Pastoral Counseling. In addition to holding a M.Div., he holds certificates in Biblical Counseling, Marriage and Family Counseling, and Alcohol & Drug Addiction Recovery (Level 3) with a Christian approach.