How to recognize a sign from God


NGC 7293, The Helix Nebula, a planetary nebula...
Helix Nebula, NGC 7293 or “The Eye of God” by NASA & ESA via Wikipedia

By Vanessa Codorniu (0riginally posted 9/30/2011)

‘We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are.’― Anaïs Nin

Recently I was asked by Soul Kisses TV for my input on this question:

I always wonder how people interpret signs from God. How do you know? It’s a hard thing to describe. What do you think?-Cocoa Popps, NYC

As Iyanla Vanzant said this weekend at the recent Hay House conference ‘It all begins in the mind.’ How people interpret signs from God, a look from a stranger or even street signs on any given street, begins in each and every individual’s own mind. Therefore, before we can look at how we may interpret signs from God, we have to look at ourselves more closely.

These core beliefs that create the way we see the world are learned from our families, culture and personal experience. The key here is that they are learned and can be unlearned when they don’t serve our highest and most fabulous good.

Ask yourself: How do I see the world? What do I believe about life? Do I believe in love? Do I believe that it’s supposed to hurt? What defines success for me? What is my belief and relationship to God? The way we define anything has an impact on how we define everything. Our beliefs color our lens and our thoughts, feelings, reactions and experience will become self-fulfilling prophecies.

Do you think that you exist in a fundamentally benevolent world? Or do you believe deep in your heart that it’s a cruel, dog-eat-dog existence? Is your version of God loving and kind? Or punishing?

What we believe…is inevitably what we perceive. This will affect how we define, experience and react what we may call signs from God. For example if the world is a frightening place were there is not enough for everyone a pink slip from a job can seem to be the end of the world. It can make someone wonder/believe they if they were betrayed by a co-worker, an employer, or even God.

Another person, trusting in the Universe’s benevolence might be surprised at first, even worried and then decide that its God’s way of saying, ‘Your time here is done. Take some time off and explore options that may make you happier.’

If your worldview includes that the world will end in 2012, every earthquake, all political unrest and each piece of disturbing nightly news feeds into your belief as ‘signs’ that the world is ending. If you believe that God is kind and this Universe is benevolent you may very well notice greater kindness in the Universe, more people meditating, an overall increased spiritual awareness in the world that may be signs to you that our Earthly existence is going thru a consciousness shift rather than a ‘physical end.’

For example, I believe that I am a child of God and that the Universe is conspiring towards my outrageous success! So when it’s time for me to leave a situation, or someone calls me with an opportunity, I see it as a sign and explore it! It doesn’t mean that its not scary but I trust the Universe and while it may not look exactly the way I thought it would…my signs lead me to greater peace and joy.

How to receive and understand a sign from God:

1. Breathe deeply: Take several deep breaths. Allow yourself to truly breathe. So often we do not let ourselves breathe deeply because we fear feeling our feelings.

2. Feel however you feel: Allow yourself in this moment to just feel however you feel as you breathe deeply.

3. Allow yourself to be present: Close your eyes. Gently allow yourself to be present and release attachments to the past and worries of the future. Bring your full attention into the present moment.

4. Pray: One of my favorite prayers, ‘Dear God/Goddess/Ganesha/Great Spirit: help me to believe the truth about myself – no matter how beautiful it is!’– M. Wiederehr

5. Ask for answers: Most religions and spiritual paths express the idea, ‘Ask & you shall receive.’ One possible prayer to ask for guidance: ‘Dear God/Goddess/Great Spirit: please help me see, know, understand, and act on your signs as inspiration for my highest good.’

6. Trust: Know that as you quiet your mind, connect to yourself and open to your divine connection, that the prayers and asking has reached its sacred mark.

7. Pay attention: Watch, listen, breathe and allow yourself to be still. Is what you are sensing as a sign of God bringing you to greater peace? Is it filling you with hope? Is it unsettling in the moment because it asks that you release or let go of something that you want to hold on to? Imagine that you are brave enough to go through the changes… do you see the light at the end of the tunnel? Remember that in order to bring in what you are wanting, whether true love, great friends, new clothes or a successful career…we must be ready to let go of what no longer serves us. Not because it is ‘bad,’ simply because it has served you as well as it could and now as you are evolving, as well as the relationships, jobs and experiences that you are having.

8. Be open: Signs from the Divine come in emails, a stranger on the bus, random occurrences that are really synchronistic answers to your prayers, a dream, a commercial, a song on the elevator, Oprah, a chance meeting, an unseen break-up, your mom’s advice, your best friend’s jokes, re-runs, an inner feeling or sense, knowing things without knowing how you ‘know.’ Basically, we are in communication with God…all the time, whether we are open or not. When we are open we feel supported and connected to something greater. When we are closed, we feel disconnected, lost and sometimes abandoned.

Remember: if you don’t like the way things feel in your world…you can always change your mind!

About the Author

Vanessa Codorniu, CHt, RM is a transformation facilitator, intuition coach, Reiki Master, writer and Latina urban priestess. She is a…

 

35 thoughts on “How to recognize a sign from God

  1. I think I’ve received a couple signs from him for example on some occasions I will think of a word and a couple seconds later someone or something will say that exact same word or something extremely related to it. Other signs are once I fell asleep and as I woke up it was like a giant screen of smoke dissapeared in front of me as if I was aware of something or as if I had solved something and that’s when I began to believe that I was guided by something , by the way I consider myself an atheist.

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  2. ppl i tell u the truth do not be fooled by sheeps clothingz/ now the way of the world is bad see the frout of life is medditaion n the opening of the spirit eye/ ppl u there are many godz n kings n the spirt world/ notice it did not say prey to jesus/ he is not a beliver u cannnn NOTTTTT BEALIVE4 N GOD BUT DNT BEALIVE N HIS SON/ GOD WAS INSIDE OF JESUS.ALL U NEED TO DO IS YES CLOSE YOUR EYES.B HUMBLE YES.TALK TO GOD THRU YOUR HEAD PLZZZ TRY IT. N SAY N JESUS NAME LORD GOD SHOW ME A SIGHN THAT U ARE THE TRUE GOD. I PROMISE U WEN U OPEN YOUR EYES LOOK N THE SKY THEN LOOK AROUND U FOR A SIGHN. MAY B A CAR ALARM ANYTHNG. IF SUMTHN HAPPNS BCUZ U EXPEDTD IT U RECVD GODS SIGHN. HE IS PROUD. THIS IS FOR U . U KNO WHO U ARE.READ SALMS 91 ALOT ALOT. THE CLOSER U GET TO GOD THE MORE THE DEVIL WILL TRY TO TAKE AWAY YOUR ATTION USING YOUR MAMA DAD ANYBODY HE CAN TO STOP U FROM TRYN TO FOCUZ ON GOD. DO NOT medditate with out recivn jesus az your god. he is god god is n him. thru him we are conneted to the tru n most powerfull god. love u so much b blessd. n yes thsi waz for u. god is real see. thnsi iz a sighn also. THE TRUTH U ARE JESUS CHILD IF YOUR HEART IS FULL OF LOVE/PAIN/NOT N LOVE WITH THE WORLD STUFF LIKE BLING BLING CARS MONEY… NEW WORLD ORDER IT TO SHIFT ONES MIND N BODY TO SATEN// N OTHER GODS N NOT JESUS/ WEN PPL B MAD AT U FOR NO REASON. N U KNO DEEP N YOUR HEART U TRYN TO B A GOOD PERSON N U KNO U HAVE A GOOD SPIRT/ ITS NOT THE PERSON MAD AT U . ITS THE EVIL SPIRT FROM BELOW HATES YOUR GOOD SPIRT. DNT BELEIAVE ME THEN DO THIS FOR ME PLZ. FAST FOR 1 DAY FOR GOD JESUS MEANS//TO DENY THE FLESH SO U CAN SEE OR HEAR FROM GOD. TLK TO JESUS PLZ

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  3. I received a sign from God today. I got in a fight with me fiancé last week and we talked about calling the wedding off, but we decided not too. Also, someone else told me he had feelings for me, and I thought I might be interested. Today, I was still feeling confused about marrying him, so I decided to go to church. I don’t go all that often, unfortunately. But today, I received a clear sign that I should get married. The first reading during mass was the first reading we had picked for our wedding ceremony, and the responsorial psalm was the same, too. One of the few days, I’ve gone to church this year, and that was what I heard.

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  4. i feel him every moment when i want to do. Every sigh of relief is his bliss provided dust of ego is not covering our soul. When we are happy due to no reason , God is near by. He is not away rather we do not feel him.

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  5. i had a sign …..not only one sign several sign on 11 march 2012. i had to go out of town for an examination. i got many sign which was preventing me to go outside but i ignored all of that ,,, and unfortunately i was raped and now diagnosed as HIV positive……..i wish that i had not ignored that sign

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  6. i am a human being who has always believen in god and jesus…but for some reason i chose god over jesus…just because i didnt under stand the religion i am..growing up as a little kid i have always talked to myself…shared feelings with myself…and wondered why i did that..well now ik its bacause of god..i have always had a problem understanding what my actuall purpose was as a human being…everybody has dreams they dnt know why they favored or jus wanted ta be somethin they always wanted to be for instance mine was a nfl football running back for stl rams…i attempted to strive for that but wasnt realyy ready or didnt care to try.all the way up until this point i feel like all the way up untill this point i jus flat out didnt want to purse anything in life…but i would still have things i told myself i wanted to be but still didnt do anything about…there is this curiosity ii have with myself that i think i started smokin weed for a reason..i talked to god differently wen i first started gettin high not in a bad way a good way..and i feel like weed made me lazy…i was just lazy blamin it on weed cause i would skip things ik were wrong to get high….i found myself more quiet and i thought about things more when i smoke weed but it didnt efect how i really felt being normal..weed just hepl me deal with things..at the same time weed has been a big problem in my life..and if simply stop smokin weed i would be ok…but i smoke anyways jus cause i wanna be high and know i could go to jail..it finally happened and i have not change any reason for me smokin.and i feel like as a human that…that is what i want to do is study cannabis..i have never felt this serious and acted on it in this way..so i know thats what i want and my mom doesnt like it due to the fact that its a sighn i took petty hard and feel like i let her down but i still am wanting to do it.i have attempted learning about cannibus all the time but jus now wanna do it and have acted on it..i jus feel like i want to know why i am a curious person…so curious that i want to study why we do the things we do..phycology..but cannibus jus takes it over cause enjoy the tpoic more…why

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  7. This morning I was scrubbing my toilet and I asked asked the Lord to please send me a sign of what I need to do to have to have some clarity in my life.I looked up and on the toilet rim was stenciled Church and under that the word sta-tite. I will be going back to the church.

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  8. I do freelance work which takes me to various places. For some reason there is this small town where I keep being called back to for work, its inconvenient to travel to and sometimes I would just rather not bother going there. One day I asked God, what is it about this town, is there a special reason I am being called here? Please give me a sign, then the next week I was there, as I sat outside in a café this bird, flew really close to me, as if to get my attention, at first I thought nothing of it, but then I remembered my question to God. The bird literally refused to go away (there was no food on the table or anything to attract it), it just kept singing to me, turning back and flying closer as if it was trying to say something to me, that yes there is something special about this town. I have no idea what it means and nothing special has happened since, but now when a client wants me to travel there I don’t turn it down…so I am waiting on a surprise from God.

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  9. Well I don’t listen to signs that ask me to go on a “special” mission for God to change people’s beliefs. I do not feel the need to entertain those signs. I think I’ve firmly established that as a fact for those who know me. My hope is that the universe will take me seriously in this and stop sending them. My only job in this life is to work on my own spiritual growth and be my true-self in the presence of others. I hope that in doing so, people will likely respond – in kind and do the same. That is how positive change takes place in the world. It is not necessary to create cults and religions to demonstrate this simply truth. Let remember the universal Golden Rule . . . treat others as you wish to be treated.

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  10. Editing mistakes. I always hit the post button before proofreading.

    “I hope that in doing so, people will respond – in kind and do the same. That is how positive change takes place in the world. It is not necessary to create cults and religions to demonstrate this simple truth. Let’s remember the universal Golden Rule . . . treat others as you wish to be treated.”

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  11. I can relate to this so much, i have never believed in god or the bible, the last year or so i have been trying to get my head around positive thinking, the universe, spirituality, ive read the secret, studied abit about plato and “platos cave” and ended up coming back to religion as i feel it all has some kind of link, there is definitely more to this life and universe that is being pulled over our eyes. Just the other day i sat back with an open mind, closed my eyes and said a prayer which is the first time ive done it with a feeling of faith, i asked god, please show me the way, guide me and give me strength to believe in what will truly make me a happier and better person. The next day i went to see my grandma, i hardly ever see her, she gave me a gift to give to my fiancé, a late xmas present, my grandma is very much a catholic and goes to church every week, that night my fiance opened the gift and it was two statue ornaments of two angels…i felt myself burn up and couldnt help think it is a sign from god…as times going by i am getting a feeling that it is a coincidence and i am only noticing it because of my thoughts, my feelings are really frustrating me as i have no idea in which direction to take! But i would really love to follow random signs that get put out to me but it is very high risk but i know exactly where your coming from.

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  12. Hey Brian that’s a nice story. I think we could all explain away signs from God as “mere coincidences” if we wanted to. But I find that when I believe, the whole thing sort of takes off and has a whole new meaning. I think everything comes down to belief. Even the belief that it would all be mere coincidence. So I suggest you choose the belief that feels best!

    By the same token, we don’t want to actively run around like nuts, searching for “signs” in everything we see. I believe understanding God in our lives is like an acquired art and science. Catholics call this “discernment,” and it’s a lifelong process! 🙂

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    1. Thanks so much for your help, I am definitely introducing God to my life, Its a strange feeling but it definitely feels better. The Bible has never made much sense to me until I have been reading it with a very open mind. I hope this will help me in my search for true happiness and clarity.

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  13. I went to the park yesterday with my sons and their girlfriends. While they walked the track, I stopped and sat on a bench at the edge of the pond. While sitting there I talked to God and thanked him for loving me and for this life even though at times it is very hard. I told him I loved him and his son and thanked Jesus for his ultimate sacrifice for me. I then looked around at the pure beauty that every human is surrounded by the glory of God and his creation. I asked the ultimate question, “What is our purpose here”? Humanity and mine as an individual. The kids came back and we left with me driving. On our way home on the right side of the road we saw a man that had a coon hung upside down skinning it and the look on his face as we drove past…the young adults with me was like, “did you see that guys face,omg it was evil”. Then a block from that we see 3 cats at a house on the left side of the road 2 were mating and 1 was waiting his turn. I could not help but wonder if this was the answer to my questions. Was it our purpose is life and death or is it we must die in order to live. I was wondering if there is anyone out there that might help me answer this question or offer some intelligent insight.

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  14. I prayed for an angel to come into my life and save me. I asked and i recieved. She just didnt save me in the way i wanted. She doesnt even like me anymore.

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  15. We had to move to a rented house due to the redevelopment of our buiding & had been praying for a good house for the 30 month period. I was worried of several problems that could be associated to the new house such as the travel distance for our son to college and tuitions, the environment, the inside layout, etc. At one point I also wished to stay close to the Church. Yes the rent also had to be within the amount that was reimbursed by our Building developer. We decided not to think of all that and simply prayed and prayed. We almost saw 15-16 houses and all had some or the other problems which didn’t seem comfortable to stay or even to adjust. After visiting about 8-10 houses we decided to shell out a little more on the rent from our pockets but get a reasonably good accomodation. And then after lot of frustration we happened to find a house much much better than our expectations. The rent, 1/3rd higher than our initial budget that we had to shell out. At the first sight we liked the house and moved in. It is opposite a (Orthodox) Church. All guests, relatives and friends highly appreciate the house which has plenty of breeze, ample amount of space inside and a garden outside & other faciilities. One of the best localities in the town. Well then we were worried whether this really was GOD’s answer to our prayers. Was it our own decision, did we ignore God’s plan someway? The 1/3rd extra rent was it worth paying or are we being extravagant? And one day a beautiful sign from GOD was found. We live on the 6th floor and the balcony is facing the church across the road. The main hall entrance door is opposite the balcony. One evening our young neice mischievoulsy happened to peep through the peephole from outside the closed door and she could saw the brightly lit Cross on the top of the Church building. We believed that as the rightful sign from GOD. We were very happy and even today we can see it. We strongly believe this as a beautiful sign from God and an assurance that He has arranged it for us & is watching over us. We are no more feeling the pinch of the extra rent. Praises to GOD.

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  16. Last night me and a few of my buddies stayed up and were having fun. All of a sudden we got to the idea to go to Cali. We live in Vegas so we were like 4 hours away. Long story short it was 1 in the morning we all decided to leave and we set out. The frist street light we hit was red it stayed red for 2 mins this was the first sign so we thought it was broken so we ended up going into the parking lot next to the street and we took a right. There were no cars in sight so I flipped a u turn to drive in the other direction because the light was green. And the monent I started turning a car speeding threw hit the driver side with my four friends in it. Lucky we all wore our seat belts the guy totaled his car he looked right into our eyes and he looked drunk and scared his head was bleeding I think and he took off my car didn’t take that much damage but he took off and we decided not to go to cail. On the way home we saw his car in the middle of the street but he was no where to be found.

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  17. what is better sign of that Darura plant? It’s really funny how something so small could be so dangerous! I wasn’t sure what is Datura stramonium exactly so I google it and I found a lot of curious information about this plant. . Actually this plant Datura stramonium may kill you just like that. Here you can find the information that you may be curious to learn about this plant http://www.ayurtimes.com/datura/

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  18. Hey Deborah, I didn’t write this article but find it interesting that it’s generated so many comments. Anyhow, your comment sparked a bit of online research. Things I already knew but wanted to clarify with the “official” terms.

    So… you might want to check out these distinctions made by theologians.

    Revelation, Inspiration – http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/13001a.htm

    Signs – “The word semeion means “sign”, an appeal to intelligence, and expresses the purpose or final cause of the miracle. A miracle is a factor in the Providence of God over men. Hence the glory of God and the good of men are the primary or supreme ends of every miracle.”
    http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/10338a.htm

    and

    Dynamis, “power” – http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/10338a.htm

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  19. I would like to say I had a very shocking experience when I was age 15 that to this day can still send a chill up my spine on God’s existence. I went to church to light a candle and brought a book called “The Other Side of Midnight”. I was very sad and cried a little in church as I prayed in my head to God. No one was in the church but me. I stayed there for an hour. In the book there was a character named Noel. She reminded me of me. I felt like her. I prayed and told God in my pray I was depressed and wished for a better life because I feel like Noel. I stayed an hour in the church. Went home and within two minutes in the door my phone rang. The man on the phone said “Excuse me is Noel there”. I said no and hung up the phone. I froze in shock. To this day I know that was no coincidence. It was as if I got to God and he answered me by letting me know he saw me in church. It was UNBELIEVABLE! Let a scientist try to answer that.

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  20. I think God, the universe, spirits, angels, whatever you want to call them; they are constantly showingr us signs. The problem is that we often are too blind to see it.

    So try to raise your spiritual awareness and I honestly believe you will notice so much more in your life and in others.

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  21. On different occasions I’ve experienced what could be called signs from God. The most recent one was when I was talking with a homeless man I knew. He asked me if I heard about the new Temple that’s being built in Brazil. He then elaborated on it. Saying it was a replica of Solomon’s temple. After talking with him I started to walk home. I noticed something on the floor. It was a small piece of paper with something typed on it. “Keep your temple in mint condition.” I was dumbfounded.
    The first sign I received was about a girl. There was a girl I liked a long time ago. Before I fell asleep I asked God if he wanted me to pursue her that he should give me a dream to about her, because I suspected the guy I met at the bible study was her boyfriend. That night while I slept I had a dream. In it I was standing in the the front yard of the house where the bible study was held. People kept coming outside with small wooden crates. As if they were moving. I asked where Jessica was. Than I heard a deep mighty voice that said I will be with her in twelve dates. I did not know what that meant, but I felt very happy about it. I woke up the next morning trying to understand what the dream meant. I then thought that maybe ill see her in 12 days. Lets fast foreword twelve days ahead. I’m at school in my English class. My teacher puts on a movie for us about a Palestinian girl and a Jewish soldier who have fallen in love but whose friends and family are deeply apposed to it. After class I walked to the registration area to talk with an administrator, when out

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  22. On different occasions I’ve experienced what could be called signs from God. The most recent one was when I was talking with a homeless man I knew. He asked me if I heard about the new Temple that’s being built in Brazil. He then elaborated on it. Saying it was a replica of Solomon’s temple. After talking with him I started to walk home. I noticed something on the floor. It was a small piece of paper with something typed on it. “Keep your temple in mint condition.” I was dumbfounded.
    The first sign I received was about a girl. There was a girl I liked a long time ago. Before I fell asleep I asked God if he wanted me to pursue her that he should give me a dream to about her, because I suspected the guy I met at the bible study was her boyfriend. That night while I slept I had a dream. In it I was standing in the the front yard of the house where the bible study was held. People kept coming outside with small wooden crates. As if they were moving. I asked where Jessica was. Than I heard a deep mighty voice that said I will be with her in twelve dates. I did not know what that meant, but I felt very happy about it. I woke up the next morning trying to understand what the dream meant. I then thought that maybe ill see her in 12 days. Lets fast foreword twelve days ahead. I’m at school in my English class. My teacher puts on a movie for us about a Palestinian girl and a Jewish soldier who have fallen in love but whose friends and family are deeply apposed to it. After class I walked to the registration area to talk with an administrator, when out of the corner of my eye I see Jessica walk right by me.

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  23. I never really believed in God …Or Jesus Christ ….But One Day After Work…I went out and drank a couple beers with some of my close friends…..That Same Day i got my paycheck . Spend some/Saved some .then we were sitting near a table and the topic we were talking about was about God/Jesus and Believing in him or not… when the question came to me i answered with “I Don’t Believe In God bro. I Just Don’t” then a couple minutes later .i Lost $286 ….In A Matter Of Minutes.. i didnt spend it .it literally went missing…. i didnt know wherebit was. And i juss started working ..that was my 3rd paycheck and it went missing in a matter of minutes…….its crazy but i understand now… when i said that i did not believe in God ..bad things happen to me?
    #An18yr.oldkidwithaMillionQuestions
    #OneAnswer
    #TRUTH

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  24. I wanted to volunteer as an admin assistant at one our church’s trusts as I wanted to help in their cause. I received an email from the manager on a Tuesday saying they are keen.

    I, was, however, became hesitant for many reasons. First, I am a foreigner and English is my second language. Second, I have a serious social phobia. Third, I do not drive and have to commute. Fourth, I am not sure I can commit to it etc.. etc..

    My heart wanted to say, “yes” but my head is screaming, “No!” So I asked for a sign from God. I prayed for white flowers until Thursday. Tuesday came and nothing.

    Then, on Wednesday night, my family attended a church event. To my surprise, the only décor at the event were white flowers. It was in the middle of spring, and my city, famous for its gardens, definitely has lots of flowers in varying colours. But this night, somehow, they chose white.

    Still unconvinced, I asked God for a further, albeit a more difficult, sign. I prayed that the flowers be given to me, in whatever form, I saw in my mind the image of the kind flower I was expecting.

    I waited the whole day of Thursday, but nothing. At 10:30 pm, when I went to bed, I realised it was nearing midnight and it’s now certain, it will never happen. I was already composing my refusal. As I couldn’t sleep, I remembered that I got a community paper from the letterbox at noon and never read it. We never received this paper before at it is supposed to cover another area so I went to get it thinking I’ll read myself to sleep.

    To my amazement, I saw on the second page, an ad for a plant shop, and it used two images of white flowers. One was similar to the flower I previously saw in the church event and the second was the flower I had in mind ( that should be given to me). I was floored and tears welled up in my eyes. The paper was “given” to me, and the flowers I wanted was there. God beat the deadline too. I looked at the clock, it was 11:30 pm- half an hour before Friday.

    It dawned on me that God do want to help me battle my fears. My volunteering is not as simple as you may think if you are me. As I said, I fear people and my past efforts have never been enough to change this. I thought I was hopeless. Volunteering, to meet people, to help others, would hopefully, finally start my journey to free myself.

    The next day, I grabbed my computer and send the church my resounding “Yes!”

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